Sex shouldn't be a precarious subject, yet it regularly is. You might be prepared for an easygoing, no-special requirements sexual relationship, however that doesn't mean she's in agreement. Before you get in too far, here are five signs that she's not the correct young lady to hop into bed with—at any rate, not yet.

1. THE GIRL WHO'S SUPER INSECURE 


Certainty is provocative. Furthermore, uncertainty is, well, a great sign that you should need to hold up before laying down with her, says sex specialist Kat Van Kirk, creator of The Married Sex Solution: A Realistic Guide to Saving Your Sex Life. "Ladies with poor confidence could frequently search for approval through sex," Van Kirk clarifies. "She could get joined rapidly." A lady who's continually stigmatizing herself—particularly her looks—isn't the best decision for an easygoing relationship.

2. THE GOLD DIGGER 


You don't need to be rich to pull in individuals who need to exploit you. On the off chance that she radiates a feeling of qualification—for instance, on the off chance that she never offers to pay for a date, or she discusses past connections just as they were exchanges—sex with her presumably accompanies some expensive strings joined. "You need to attempt to make sense of her esteem framework," Van Kirk says. "Does she think sex is pleasant, or does she consider it to be a method for getting what she needs?"

3. THE PARTY ANIMAL 


Gathering young ladies are frequently amazing—yet in the event that you've never observed her calm, it's a great opportunity to step away. "On the off chance that she can't have a ton of fun without getting alcoholic, that is a sign she's awkward with the circumstance," Van Kirk clarifies. "It's likewise a sign that she might not have extraordinary judgment as a rule." Plus, there's the undeniable issue of assent—she can't agree to sex if she's inebriated.

4. THE GIRL WHO'S TOO CASUAL ABOUT PROTECTION 


Her sexual past isn't generally an issue, except if it could influence you. Try not to stress over what number of past accomplices she has (or hasn't) had, yet do stress in the event that she never specifies security or safe sex—particularly when things begin to get warmed. "The two gatherings should be in charge of their own wellbeing," Van Kirk says. "On the off chance that she doesn't appear to be stressed over her wellbeing, she's presumably not stressed over yours either."

5. THE GIRL WHO'S NEVER SINGLE 


You at last have an opportunity to lay down with the young lady who's been in long haul connections since the day you met her. In any case, that doesn't mean you should take that risk, as per relationship master Tracy Thomas, Ph.D. "Individuals who are dependably seeing someone frequently have no feeling of their identity as an individual," Thomas clarifies. "In the event that her character has dependably been as a feature of a couple, she may turn out to be extremely clingy and mutually dependent on the off chance that you lay down with her." That doesn't mean she's totally beyond reach—simply comprehend what you could be getting into.